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Wearing a tie projects a more business-like
image. It says, “I’m willing to go the extra
step.” It seems to finish an outfit. And yes,
I’ll admit it; I think men look more handsome
when they wear a tie.
The reason I’m tied up in knots on this subject
was the announcement last month that the Men’s
Dress Furnishings Association, the trade group
that represented American tie-makers, closed its
doors after 60 years in business. Membership had
declined dramatically since the power-tie era of
the 1980s, ushered out by the business-casual
revolution and a younger generation that
believes ties are optional.
|The number of men who wore ties every day to
work last year was a record low 6 percent, down
from 10 percent in 2002, according to a recent
Gallup poll. Adding insult to injury, NPD Group
reports U.S. tie sales were $677.7 million in
the 12 months ending March 31 — down roughly
half from a peak of $1.3 billion in 1995.
Why are men so down on ties? And why are they
getting away with not wearing them to work? What
if women decided en masse that they would no
longer wear pantyhose to the office? Pantyhose,
like ties, are frequently a dreaded part of a
woman’s business attire. Still, women
acknowledge that they’re a finishing touch.
Wearing pantyhose allows you to slide your foot
into a great pair of high heels; they provide an
even tone for a pair of gams, and in many cases,
the control top variety helps to rein in the
tummy just a touch.
Most women agree that pantyhose, like ties, are
not very comfortable to wear. Sure, some are
silky soft to the touch, but if you’re blessed
with large thighs or a lower half that isn’t
quite as proportional as the chart on the
hosiery package, binding and sagging can occur
in all the wrong places. And, because pantyhose
cover a woman’s legs from waist to toe, I dare
say women endure more discomfort in the name of
professionalism than men do by wearing a tie.
Look, I work from my home full time, which
probably means I have no right to espouse a
point of view on office attire. It’s fair to say
that a lot has changed since I worked in an
office setting, and being of a certain age, I
cling to tradition.
Still, having an opinion is a woman’s
prerogative, and mine is this: More men should
wear ties to work. Feel free to loosen the knot
a bit, if you like; that’s O.K. in my book.
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